Archive for August, 2009

Unabashed Day in the Life: The Ass Doctor Cometh

August 30th, 2009
Tools of the Trade

Tools of the Trade, 8/26/09

I wish I could say I was simply going for my yearly PAP but the fact of the matter is that I had a hemorrhoid flare-up.  

My ass doctor is 6 foot 5 inches tall and has abnormally soft hands.  I imagine him preparing for bed, slathering each hand in not-for-resale, doctor’s office samples of KY Warming Jelly (or “Gelee” as they say in France, or “Gigli” as they say in the Bronx) sealing the moisture in with latex gloves. (more…)

Unabashed Daddy Worship: You’re the Boss

August 28th, 2009
From L to R: Some guy, Danny Pintaro, a porn star named Wolf Hudson

From L to R: some guy, Danny Pintauro, a porn star named Wolf Hudson

Former child actor, Danny Pintauro, is a harmless wisp of a boy, even at 33 years-old.  

I ran into him at, of all places, the Freshmen Magazine “Freshman of the Year” party.  Teetering somewhere between unhealthy and not-well, Pintauro’s was the only half-recognizable face in a sea of whatever.  So I asked him what the hell he was doing there. (more…)

Unabashedly Dunne: No, like, DONE

August 27th, 2009
Mr. Dunne & Ms. Queer

Dunne & Queer, 2007

Unabashed Grassroot Effort: Share “Business Before Pleasure?”

August 25th, 2009

Take Part by sending my article to anyone who might be interested. 

SF Gate (added 8/27)



Tiny Nibbles


The Unabashed Queer’s Cut: Business Before Pleasure?

August 20th, 2009

The LA Times reported today that AHF (AIDS Healthcare Foundation) filed complaints against 16 production companies that refrain from using condoms in their films.

My article, “Business Before Pleasure?,” was originally published on the Advocate website in an edited format on August 12, 2009. It was removed from their website today.

Here is the UNABASHED draft as submitted to the Advocate. (more…)

Unabashedly Convoluted: HIV Prevention for Porn Stars

August 13th, 2009

Image by Richard Kadrey / Kaos Beauty Klinik.

New article by the Unabashed Queer for The Advocate website entitled, “Business Before Pleasure?”  

This is not my typical, opinionated, first-person piece.  It’s like my version of an Associated Press article.  But there are still hints of the Unabashed Queer throughout…

Mentions of the article can be found at SF Gate Columnist, Violet Blue’s, tinynibbles (where I got this awesome image), at AIDS Healthcare Foundation’s website, and the Gay Porn Times to name a few.

Unabashed Elderstyle: Ruthie, Mein Liebe

August 10th, 2009

Ruth, My Love

I’ve been running into a lot of ancient cuties lately.  I can’t control when I see a dapper elderly person.  They just show up like a ten dollar bill on the sidewalk. (more…)